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About Me

Jesse, 31, he/she
Bisexual, fraysexualI'm NONBINARY; please don't call me an "enby" or some other dumb variant of a nickname. I find it rather insulting and infantilizing.

General interests

OCs, Destiny 2, Star Wars, BTS, Cookie Run: Kingdom, xianxia, Minecraft, cheese

Special interests

Fantasy governments and politics, glass-blowing, the history of chocolate

I support:

Black Lives Matter
Stop Asian Hate
Free Palestine
I stand with Ukraine
LGBTQ+ rights

I don’t support..

Radfems, terfs, truscum or transmeds, nazis and white supremacists, or people who romanticize/glorify mental disorders and disabilities.

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Please be aware that I have severe borderline personality disorder! I have this listed publicly because this affects my every day life and greatly influences how I will interact with people. This disorder actively keeps me from being able to socialize in a typical manner, and friendships are hard for me to maintain.

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Regarding BPD:

I'm a very angry, bitter person when it comes to my mental conditions because they have ruined my life and so many experiences and opportunities for me over the years. They're not uwu cutesy conditions like you think; they're very real and have driven me to near suicide more times than I can count.I will block people that I see trivializing mental illnesses, especially BPD. It's not a joke, it's not "something you probably have" because you saw a relatable Tiktok about it or because you're a little upset that someone didn't text you back one time. It's a serious condition and has been ruining my life for over fifteen years, and has caused more relationship failures, both romantic and platonic, in my life than you'll ever experience. It is MISERABLE, and it's not something to pretend to have for fun or because you need an extra convenient label to add to your giant pile.

IMPORTANT!

I don't have a problem with pansexual people or the pansexual identity, but I DO have a problem when pan people try to insist that pansexuality = all genders but bisexuality = only two/two or more.Bisexuality has always and will always include all gender identities; it's not a fucking transphobic sexuality. You should read some actual LGBT history about bisexuality instead of getting all of your info from some cutesy little uwu pan-positivity blog on Tumblr that only exists to erase bisexuality and peddle misinformation. Also, all asexual people are just fine the way they are, and they all belong in the LGBT community. Yes, even the cisgender and "straight" ones. Just leave ace people the fuck alone, for the love of god.I exist under the bisexuality umbrella, but my sexuality is defined as fraysexual. You can read about it here: (LINK)

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